Pamela Quiery Parent Coach

Compassionate inquiry-informed parent coaching

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Parent from a place of peace, not your past

Using Dr. Gabor Maté’s Compassionate Inquiry to help you uncover what’s really happening beneath the surface of your parenting struggles.
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Do you ever feel like your child’s behavior is pushing buttons you didn't even know you had?

We often think our stress comes from our children—their tantrums, their screen time, or their refusal to listen. But often, our biggest parenting "triggers" are actually old wounds or survival patterns showing up in the present.

​If you feel:

Overwhelmed by your own big emotions when your child acts out.

Stuck in reactive cycles of shouting or shaming that you promised you’d never do.

Confused why certain "small" moments feel so incredibly hard.
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Compassionate Inquiry-informed coaching helps you look inward so you can show up more fully for your child.
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what is compassionate inquiry?

A Science-Based Bridge to Deeper Connection

As a trainee in Dr. Gabor Maté’s Compassionate Inquiry approach, I help you safely explore the stories you tell yourself about your parenting.

This is for you if you want to go deeper than the usual "tips and tricks" to change your child's behaviour.

​We do this by: 

uncovering triggers

Understanding why your child's behaviour provokes such a strong physical or emotional response in you. 

breaking cycles

Identifying both the generational patterns you don't want to pass down and the generational strengths you do.

self-compassion

Learning to hold your own imperfections with kindness so you can do the same for your child.

the journey to peaceful parenting

While much of my work involves practical parenting support, my Compassionate Inquiry sessions are a pure, focused container for inner work. In these sessions, we set aside other frameworks to focus entirely on uncovering the roots of your reactions, allowing you to heal the underlying patterns that keep showing up to derail your parenting.

Compassionate Exploration:
We gently look at the "why" behind your reactions.

Nervous System Regulation: We learn how to bring your body back to safety when you’re triggered.

Practical Application: We turn these internal shifts into external parenting wins using your own wisdom. I have found that this is the most effective way to create more cooperation and less conflict.

Experience the Power of Compassionate Inquiry
Curious about what's really driving your parenting triggers? Book a gifted 60-minute Compassionate Inquiry session to experience this deep, reflective approach first-hand and see if it's the right fit for your journey.
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Pamela Quiery Parent Coach
Providing local services in Belfast, Northern Ireland and online around the world.
☎ +44 7450203275
​[email protected]
  • Home
  • About
  • Work With Me
    • Compassionate Inquiry Coaching
    • 1-to-1 Parent Coaching
    • Courses & Group Programs >
      • Parenting Foundations Course
      • The LOVING Approach
      • The Screen Time Solution
      • Parenting with Confidence
  • Free Resources
    • Free Masterclass
    • Screen Time Guide
    • Blog
    • Podcast
  • Contact
  • Testimonials
  • FAQs