Why traditional ways to manage children’s behaviour with consequences and rewards leads to more problems than it solves.
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How to make friends with children’s feelings and work with their nervous systems in a way that will lead to more cooperation.
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How to use the power of play to bring joy, laughter and cooperation to even the trickiest of stand-offs.
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How to untangle our own triggers so we can keep our cool and respond to our children calmly without shouting followed by guilt |
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Hi, I’m Pamela
I am a mum of two, a certified parenting coach and a self-confessed neuroscience geek. I have helped hundreds of parents like you over the past four years. Not to mention the intense on-the-job training of being a mum for over a decade - my kids are definitely my best teachers. Everything was a battle of wills, from mealtimes to getting dressed to turning the screens off. When my second child came along, I felt burnt out and exhausted. I struggled to respond calmly to my older child’s challenging behaviour. Frustration and yelling became a regular pattern in our family. I was in a turmoil of resentment, anger and guilt - this was not the parent I ever imagined I would be. |
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Once I learned how to understand my children’s emotions and use simple tools to build connection and cooperation into our daily lives, everything changed.
I now feel like a capable leader in my family. Our home is full of laughter instead of yelling. I know how to navigate the challenges life throws at us in a way that brings us closer and helps my children learn and grow emotionally. |
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STEP 1
BEFRIENDING THE BRAIN SCIENCE Understanding our children's emotions is the key to creating cooperation in our families.
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STEP 2
UNTANGLING YOUR TRIGGERS The more capacity we have as parents the easier it is to be patient with our kids.
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STEP 3
PURPOSEFUL PLAY Play is the fastest and most effective way to build connection and cooperation into our daily interactions with our children.
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"Pamela is an amazing and caring coach! She models giving the support needed to practice the tools."
- Sarah, mum of two boys |
"I now have the tools to make the relationship with my children so much better and manage big emotions."
- Aoife, solo mum of three |
"Incredibly helpful, made me look at things from a different perspective and try new tools I will always use in the future."
- Paul, dad of a 4yo |
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I have helped hundreds of parents. Over ten years of being a parent, studying, practicing and training and four years of working with parents, I finally learned why children don't listen and how to bring back calm and cooperation. The connection, joy and delight this has brought has changed my life and the lives of my children. I'm on a mission to bring this to as many parents as I can.
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