Parent Masterclass

The Real Reason Kids Don't Listen - And What Actually Works

Are you tired of repeating yourself a hundred times a day? Do you feel like nothing works except shouting—or giving in?

You’re not alone. Parenting is hard, and when kids push back, it can feel exhausting. But the good news? There’s a better way—one that doesn’t rely on threats, bribes, or endless negotiations.

Join my free Masterclass to discover a simple, science-backed approach to getting your kids to cooperate while strengthening your connection with them. I’ll guide you through three powerful steps that will help turn daily power struggles into moments of understanding, connection and cooperation.

What You Will Learn:

The hidden reason rewards and consequences backfire—and what to do instead for long-term cooperation

A simple shift in how you respond to your child’s big emotions that makes cooperation easier, no more endless explanations.

The secret to using play to dissolve power struggles and bring laughter back into your home.

How to manage your own triggers so you can stay calm and confident—even when your child is losing it.

A peaceful, connected home starts with understanding your child’s emotions and using the right tools to build trust and cooperation. Let me show you how.

"I learned more practical strategies in one hour than I did on a 90 day paid programme" - Veronica, past participant

Hi, I'm Pamela...

I’m a mum of two, a certified parenting coach, and a self-confessed neuroscience geek. Over the past eight years, I’ve helped hundreds of parents like you navigate the ups and downs of raising strong-willed kids. And let’s be honest—my biggest teachers have been my own children.
I used to feel completely overwhelmed. Everything felt like a battle—mealtimes, getting dressed, turning off screens. When my second child came along, I was burnt out and exhausted. I tried being patient, but frustration and yelling became a regular pattern. And the guilt? It was overwhelming.
Then I discovered a different approach—one based on understanding emotions, connection, and play. Once I started using simple, practical tools to build cooperation into our daily lives, everything changed. Our home became calmer. There was more laughter, fewer battles, and I finally felt confident as a parent.
And now, I want to share this with you.

3 Steps To A More Peaceful Home

Creating a peaceful home doesn’t have to feel impossible. It starts with understanding your child’s emotions and using the right tools to build connection and cooperation. I’ll show you exactly how.

These three simple yet powerful steps have transformed daily struggles into harmony for countless parents—including my clients. And they can work for you too.

STEP 1
UNLOCKING THE COOPERATION CODE

Discover the brain science behind your child's emotions and behaviour, so you can foster cooperation without battles. Learn how emotions drive behaviour and uncover a science-backed approach to creating harmony in your home—without punishments or bribes.

STEP 2
REWIRING YOUR PARENTING TRIGGERS

Parenting feels easier when you have the capacity to stay calm. Gain control over your reactions, reduce stress, and approach parenting with confidence and patience. You’ll learn how to uncover what’s really behind your biggest frustrations and develop tools to respond with clarity and calm.

STEP 3
THE POWER OF PLAYFUL PARENTING

Turn struggles into connection using play-based strategies that encourage laughter and teamwork. Play isn’t just fun—it’s the fastest and most effective way to strengthen your bond and encourage cooperation. I’ll show you how to turn power struggles into connection using playful tools that work instantly.

Meet Angelique...

Before working with me, parenting felt like an uphill battle for Angelique. She was overwhelmed and frustrated. The only way she could get her 7-year-old to do homework was by threatening to take away his Switch—but deep down, that didn’t feel right.
Here’s what she had to say after our work together:

"Pamela helped me change the way I parent and we’re seeing the benefits immediately. After every session I feel empowered and ready to take on each parenting challenge. We’re reaping so many benefits from the tools she teaches. My son will later imitate my patience, love and connectivity with my daughter. This is how I know Pam’s methods work.”
Angelique - Mum of a 7 year old and 3 year old

You deserve a home filled with more laughter, more connection, and more ease. And I can help you get there.

What people are saying about my Masterclass

"I will be trying more fun and laughter! I've become too serious!"

"I've really loved all your ideas of how to do play. I'm not a very playful person by nature, so I really appreciate your examples!"

"My biggest take away is definitely the play listening. I use it on some occasions but listening to you has made me realise how useful it will be in a lot of situations where I get to my limits"

I have helped hundreds of parents. Over thirteen years of being a parent, studying, practicing and training and six years of working with parents, I finally learned why children don't listen and how to bring back calm and cooperation. The connection, joy and delight this has brought has changed my life and the lives of my children. I'm on a mission to help as many parents as I can.

More Praise for my Masterclass...

"It was absolutely brilliant. All so clear and pragmatic and really achievable and attainable."

"It was so full of direct, easy to implement ideas, which is what everyone really wants and needs."

"Even just listening to your playful examples makes me feel so much better. So I guess if I smile and feel lighter just by listening to you, our kids must feel it even more when we do it with them"