Pamela Quiery Parent CoachHelping overwhelmed parents build calm, confident, and connected family lives
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Practical, science-backed coaching for parents navigating big emotions, power struggles, and daily challenges
I help parents reduce tantrums, end power struggles, and build stronger bonds with their kids through compassionate, trauma-aware, neuroscience-informed coaching.
end the screen time battles - say goodbye to conflict
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Hi, I'm Pamela Quiery - Parent Coach
I help parents find calm, confidence, and connection with their kids using respectful, trauma-aware parenting. With training in Compassionate Inquiry and neuroscience, I guide families through big emotions, power struggles, and everyday challenges so they can build stronger, happier relationships. Proud mum of two, imperfect, messy parent, and passionate supporter of parents just like you.
how i can help you
join my free masterclass and finally get your kids to listen!In this 60-minute live session, you’ll discover compassionate strategies to respond to your child’s feelings without power struggles. Learn how to stay calm and connected even during the toughest moments.
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peaceful parent school: AN 8 WEEK GROUP PROGRAMA supportive group coaching program designed to help you transform daily parenting challenges into opportunities for connection and cooperation. Over weeks, you’ll gain practical tools and confidence to parent peacefully and respectfully.
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listen to my podcast: how to parent peacefullyJoin me as I share with you five simple tools for a more peaceful, playful home. If you’re ready to enjoy raising your children by creating a peaceful home where kids want to cooperate and you keep your cool, you’re in the right place.
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what parents say
“Pamela’s coaching helped me understand my child better and bring peace back to our home.” — Sarah, mum of two
“The tools I learned changed how I handle tantrums and power struggles. I feel more confident as a parent.” — James, dad of a toddler
about me
I’m Pamela, a parent coach from Ireland and the proud mum of two - a teenage daughter and a tween son. I’m a messy, imperfect parent, still learning and growing through every new stage.
I've learned that parenting isn’t about being perfect; it’s about showing up with kindness, learning as you go, and growing alongside your child. That’s why I’m here, to walk alongside you with compassion and practical tools.
My work is informed by Hand in Hand Parenting, a connection-based, peaceful parenting approach and Dr Gabor Mate's Compassionate Inquiry, a powerful modality that helps uncover the deeper emotional needs behind behaviour. I also integrate neuroscience research, including Polyvagal Theory, Interpersonal and Relational Neurobiology, and Collaborative Problem Solving, to offer you effective, brain-friendly strategies.
Together, we’ll build stronger relationships, deeper understanding, and more joyful days. You already have everything it takes to be the loving parent your child needs. Sometimes, you just need a little support to see it clearly.
I've learned that parenting isn’t about being perfect; it’s about showing up with kindness, learning as you go, and growing alongside your child. That’s why I’m here, to walk alongside you with compassion and practical tools.
My work is informed by Hand in Hand Parenting, a connection-based, peaceful parenting approach and Dr Gabor Mate's Compassionate Inquiry, a powerful modality that helps uncover the deeper emotional needs behind behaviour. I also integrate neuroscience research, including Polyvagal Theory, Interpersonal and Relational Neurobiology, and Collaborative Problem Solving, to offer you effective, brain-friendly strategies.
Together, we’ll build stronger relationships, deeper understanding, and more joyful days. You already have everything it takes to be the loving parent your child needs. Sometimes, you just need a little support to see it clearly.
get in touch
If you’re ready to bring more calm and connection to your family, I’d love to hear from you. Reach out via my contact page or join my newsletter for parenting tips, support, and updates.
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